As Catholics, we hold that there is a Truth, The Word Made Flesh, Our Savior, Jesus Christ. One does not debate Divine Truth. To debate Divine Truth is nothing but a lack of Faith. As Catholics, we hold that there is a Truth, and for everything we do, we must ask, is it of God? Here is God's Truth and thus the Catholic Church's teaching on Sexual Love: Sexual Love only exists within the Sanctity of a Holy Marriage which is Blessed by God. (" What God Has Joined Together ") All of us are called to develop healthy and Holy relationships and friendships with one another in communion with God. Some of these relationships will develop into Marriage. This is what God intended. Those of us who know how to develop healthy and Holy relationships and friendships do not feel the need to act out sexually in these relationships. We are not trying to be possessive or to manipulate these relationships. Love is not possessive nor does it serve to manipulate. There is no inherent right to lust over someone. Thus using terms such as heterosexual,etc. are simply demeaning. God created Man and Woman, Male and Female. The monologues are not of God. They are a lie from the start. ( title ) They do not respect the Sacredness and Dignity of the Gift of Life. They are oppressive and demeaning. The sexual objectification of any person is a form of slavery. We all know that Christ came to set us free. BE NOT AFRAID!